In addition to running a thriving private therapy practice, I also provide attachment and relationship coaching through Hannah Dorsher Coaching. With a Master’s in Counseling and a Bachelor's in Psychology, I bring a unique blend of therapeutic expertise to my work as an Attachment Coach, drawing from personal, educational, and clinical experience with thousands of clients to guide women toward healing their anxious attachment.

I’m a Licensed Therapist and Attachment Coach helping women and moms end their unhealthy relationship patterns and create healthy, grounded, secure relationships using Attachment Theory and my psychology-backed practices.

I'm Hannah Dorsher.

Because I’ve been there too, girl. I know firsthand what it feels like to be stuck on an emotional rollercoaster in relationships, to feel like something is just inherently wrong with me because no matter how hard I try– it seems like I just keep messing up or repeating the same old unhealthy patterns. I know what it is like to feel shame about my overreactions and outbursts, but to feel powerless to stop the reactivity. And I know how it feels to want nothing more than to be healthy so you can raise healthy, secure babies. 

But best of all, I know that healing IS possible. I’ve seen it happen countless times with my clients and I have experienced it myself! Through my own attachment work and studying I have been able to heal my own experiences that left me feeling like I was not worthy of love. I’ve been able to learn and employ a wide array of techniques and skills to help me process and release emotions in healthy ways, and I now know how to be aware of my inner experience and communicate with my husband and kids in intentional, helpful ways. I have truly been able to transform my relationships with others… and with myself! Gone are the days of being overly critical and bullying myself!! 

So let me guide you on your healing! Together we will work to heal your attachment wounds, improve your communication skills, learn how to calm your emotional storms skillfully and effectively, and feel confident that you are healthy and, for my mamas, ready to pass on healthy attachment styles to your little ones!

Why Do i do this work?

Relationships do not have to be so hard.

  • Bachelor’s in Psychology

  • Master’s in Counseling 

  • Countless hours of training in attachment theory

  • Worked as a relationship and attachment therapist for 9 years (and counting!) 

  • Around 10,000 hours working with clients to improve their lives and relationships

My Qualifications: 

Through college I had wild ups and downs in relationships. I kept finding myself in the same crappy relationships that literally always left me wanting and needing more, feeling out of control emotionally, and feeling like I was clearly messed up or broken or too much for anyone to be able to meet my needs. 

Enter attachment work. 

When I was introduced to Attachment Theory and started the process of attachment work, I learned that there was a reason I kept repeating the same patterns. There was a reason I felt like too much and that I constantly needed more reassurance that I was loved in relationships. There was a reason my emotions were so intense and hard to manage. My attachment wounds had been shaping my behavior and thoughts for years. It was like my brain was steering me towards relationships and situations that would confirm and reinforce my deeply held beliefs about myself–that I was unlovable, broken, too much, etc. I would leave these situations feeling like I had even more proof that these things must be true. It was such a crappy cycle. It had to change because I wanted more than anything to find a happy relationship and, eventually, be a healthy mama. 

Behind the Scenes of My Life:

I Started Reading Anything I Could Get My Hands On Related To Attachment Theory And Attachment Work. I Started Taking Trainings On Attachment Based Therapy. I Got Myself A Therapist Or Two To Help Me Work Through Everything I Was Learning.

And I started to notice that my dating choices were changing. I was quick to nix bad fits and was able to recognize secure, healthy behaviors (and not find that boring) quickly too. I was able to notice my triggers and ground myself back into a logical place BEFORE reacting impulsively. I learned how to slow down and communicate my feelings and needs. And, perhaps most importantly, I learned that I am worthy of love as I am, I am important, and I am more than good enough, and I am not too much. 

Somewhere along this journey I reconnected with one of my best friends from high school who is my now husband. And we are blessed with two sweet boys. I feel confident that I am passing on secure attachment patterns to them and that they are getting to witness a healthy, loving, secure marriage–one of the biggest gifts you can give your kids.

This is what I want for you. This is what I know is possible for you. This is what I can help you achieve. You can have it all!

  • Deeply and genuinely love and nurture yourself. 
  • View your story with compassion and love. 
  • Feel in control of your reactions. 
  • Know how to ground yourself and regulate your emotions. 
  • Understand your patterns and triggers so you can respond thoughtfully to them.
  • Communicate your feelings, needs, thoughts with ease and skill. 
  • Feel confident that you are passing on healthy attachment to your kids. 
  • Have healthy, fulfilling, secure relationships.

You deserve to :

I use a psychology-backed, structured system to help you:

Learn the skills and strategies necessary to respond rather than react in your relationships. 

Regulate & Communicate:

Examine old patterns of beliefs and stories you hold about yourself and relationships. Rewrite these stories so they serve you rather than hold you back. Learn to give yourself the nurturing love and guidance you have always needed and wanted to heal the wounded part of yourself.

Rewrite & Reparent:

Learn how and why your attachment style developed and understand your patterns and triggers. This is the first step in being able to create change.

Learn & Build Awareness:

Anxious to Secure: Four Steps to begin your journey to secure! 

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